Anonymous asked: My BF and I've been dating for four months. but two of those months I've been abroad. now we never talk except to check with each other. one of my good guys friends (we weren't close at all in high school. but we started talking online to each other and get along really well) is becoming my surrogate BF while I'm away. we talk all the time and I think I am developing feelings for him. How do I know whether these feelings are worth something, or just displacement because I miss my boyfriend?

You can’t know, but my advice is that you leave your boyfriend. Four months isn’t very long, and I’d say two months isn’t long enough to be together before deciding long distance is what’s best. If you’re finding interest in other people, it’s probably because you’re not interested enough in him.