Anonymous asked: I'm the anon who posted about my girlfriend's sexual past - thank you for the reply :) I know you get lots of questions, a good few that must annoy you. I know it's not fair, I wasn't being judgemental of her at all, thing is my ex screwed me up a bit - refused to sleep with me or would just get up and leave during - basically she left me really sexually insecure, and so I worry that I'm not enough for anyone sexually, that I'm doing something wrong. I guess it just takes time and trust.

I wasn’t annoyed by your question at all. I just want you to know that she can’t help her sexual past because it’s just that, in the past. She likes you and wants to be with you, clearly. You might need to fake confidence when you’re with her sexually. Your insecurities make the person your intimate with uncomfortable because it’s obvious when someone is insecure or has low self-esteem. Just give it time and trust, exactly as you said.