Anonymous asked: I can't stop thinking about my girlfriend's sexual past. It's nothing extreme, or sordid, it's basically the same as mine from what I know, and I know it's pointless to worry because everyone has a sexual past, but it's the PAST, and she's with me now, and that should be that, but I just find myself worrying about, you know, who she might have been with or what she might have done and I can't stop myself. The thought of her with anyone else makes me sick to my stomach :/

Well, that’s not very fair. Even if she had tons of sexual partners, it was still her past and her own choices. Maybe the thought of you being with people in the past disgusts her too. I mean, the truth of the matter is, she’s with you because she wants to be. Who cares what she’s done? No matter how much past experience she has, she chose to be with you above anyone else. You should at least respect her and the fact that the past is in the past. The fact that her previous sex life bothers you tells me that there’s something wrong with you. I guess you just need to figure out what that is.